|Brian Joseph Johns|
How To Overcome Love Hate Definition Reversal
Some forms of Love/Hate ideology are abused by some people to trick you out of what you have to share with those you love and admire.
As I've said before, you can make someone hate you because that emotion is largely governed by hormones in your body, cortisol and adrenaline are some that affect that emotion. If you can trick someone's body into producing those hormones, and then harass them to no end, they are likely to react in a way that is harsh and hateful.
You cannot make somebody love you. There is no hormone that can do so and no Spanish fly that can make you fall in love with another person. Love is something linked directly to consciousness and is something that always must be earned and sometimes in the rare case, it is intuitively shared by two people immediately. That is why there are people who try to swap the two definition of the two emotions, because you can make someone hate, so if you reverse hate to mean love, then provoking someone to a hateful reaction is akin to making them love you and accordingly that is the means by which you share your good with others.
In this abusive form of love hate ideology, the only way that you share with others is by whom you love or have good feelings for so people literally have to earn it. They cannot trick you out of it, or can they? By swapping the definitions of love and hate a group of people are making it so that other people can milk you of your good deeds without having to meet your requirements for whom you share with and whatever else you have to share, by provoking you to a hateful reaction. So that is why I never, and I mean never reverse the definition of the two. Once you start down that road, its impossible to find your way back.
If you need to stop it or find your way back, here's a trick.
Polaris. The North Star.
In order for the love/hate definition reversal thing to work, it requires that there is always an opposite present to accommodate the term or idea to which you refer eg up leads to down, left to right, hot to cold, full to empty etc. In the paradigm, you might say you like someone, and to the cult it will mean that you dislike someone and that's how they'll distribute your good and bad accordingly. So someone that you love might end up with the bad things, and someone that you don't love and really dislike might end up with your good things. If definitions are reversed, how do you argue or reason your way back to the correct definition without using the words in the definition themselves?
For the North Star, Polaris, there is not equal opposite on the south pole of the Earth that is exactly like Polaris because the southern sky is not a mirrored reflection of the northern sky. So the fact that the North Pole nearly exactly points at Polaris is the foundation from which to build from in defining the polarity correctly in such a way that cannot be reversed. Even referring to the North Pole as the South Pole won't work because there is no accompanying star similar to Polaris at the real south pole. From that point you can build a solid definition for up meaning the direction that points directly away from the center of the Earth and down being the direction that points directly to the center of the Earth. So its as simple as the fact that the North Pole points almost directly at Polaris. From there you can define polarity in terms of the definition of words correctly.
So the only think that you need to do to reinforce the definition of love and hate is state and recognize that the North Pole, an imaginary line that runs through the Earth along its axis of rotation, points directly at the North Star or Polaris. So that direction is North. Therefore the definitions of words are lined up as they should be and how they are defined in the dictionary.
What motivated me to formulate that? Love. I don't want the people I care about ending up with bad things sometimes dumped on me by others to hit the people that I admire and care about. I want to make sure that the people I care about and the cultural group of my love interest (she's Oriental I've mentioned) end up with what good I have to share, so they'll know I'm worthy of theirs. Likewise for the people that I admire and who've helped and inspired me in life. I enjoy dualism, but not when its abused by some to take from you what others have to earn the real way. I posted this short article on my gripes blog a day or so ago. My gripes blog is the place where I put most of the garbage that comes my way as a result of abusive stalking etc. so its a bit negative at times but every once in a while it has a nugget of gold. This was one such thing.
Updates To The Stories
Nothing new as of recent as I've been working around the clock on an upcoming software release. I'll be adding to the stories in the next couple of days along with a few articles and posts about some of the people out there whom I admire. Make sure that others earn what you have to share, and that definitely means earning your love.
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Brian Joseph Johns
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